Comments for Helping Couples Grow http://helpingcouplesgrow.com Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:08:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.1 Comment on Is it the Immune System or the Toxic Environment? by Miriam Bellamy http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/2012/01/is-it-the-immune-system-or-the-toxic-environment/#comment-405 Miriam Bellamy Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:08:46 +0000 http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/?p=383#comment-405 Hi Rich, What a great way to put it - victim vs. crusader. Leaps of faith into the unknown for reasons that are deeply important to us probably rarely turn out how we think they will, but it is in the leaping that we truly live. One small leap at a time. Hi Rich,
What a great way to put it – victim vs. crusader. Leaps of faith into the unknown for reasons that are deeply important to us probably rarely turn out how we think they will, but it is in the leaping that we truly live. One small leap at a time.

]]> Comment on Is it the Immune System or the Toxic Environment? by Rich http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/2012/01/is-it-the-immune-system-or-the-toxic-environment/#comment-403 Rich Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:24:13 +0000 http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/?p=383#comment-403 You are so right. It really is so much easier to be a victim than a crusader but putting on the armor and meeting life as it comes is so much richer. Great post. Thank you. You are so right. It really is so much easier to be a victim than a crusader but putting on the armor and meeting life as it comes is so much richer. Great post. Thank you.

]]> Comment on Is it the Immune System or the Toxic Environment? by Miriam Bellamy http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/2012/01/is-it-the-immune-system-or-the-toxic-environment/#comment-402 Miriam Bellamy Wed, 01 Feb 2012 15:06:55 +0000 http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/?p=383#comment-402 I'm glad your eyelashes are growing back. Seriously. ;) I’m glad your eyelashes are growing back.

Seriously.

;)

]]> Comment on Is it the Immune System or the Toxic Environment? by Elaina http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/2012/01/is-it-the-immune-system-or-the-toxic-environment/#comment-400 Elaina Tue, 31 Jan 2012 21:39:16 +0000 http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/?p=383#comment-400 After being held so close to the fire that my eyelashes are finally growing back, I can say I feel healthier overall than I have in years :) You are right - it is NO fun, but boy am I glad I took and continue to the take the journey, even when it is hot! After being held so close to the fire that my eyelashes are finally growing back, I can say I feel healthier overall than I have in years :) You are right – it is NO fun, but boy am I glad I took and continue to the take the journey, even when it is hot!

]]> Comment on Are You a Mind-Mapper? by Miriam Bellamy http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/2011/11/are-you-a-mind-mapper/#comment-330 Miriam Bellamy Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:22:53 +0000 http://helpingcouplesgrow.com/?p=340#comment-330 Rich! So great to hear from you again! It's been a while! I think you are so right about the problem with presenting your mapping as fact. I think the reason it's a problem when presented that way is when we use our mapping to try to get our partners to see it our way when the very nature of the conflict is for them to make CERTAIN that they don't or won't see it your way. Adds a whole new meaning to "I just want my partner to understand me!" doesn't it? Glad you're reading the book! Rich!
So great to hear from you again! It’s been a while! I think you are so right about the problem with presenting your mapping as fact. I think the reason it’s a problem when presented that way is when we use our mapping to try to get our partners to see it our way when the very nature of the conflict is for them to make CERTAIN that they don’t or won’t see it your way. Adds a whole new meaning to “I just want my partner to understand me!” doesn’t it?

Glad you’re reading the book!

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